Without wasting much time, here are some of the personality traits men hate in women:
The "Bit_ _" - I have read in some popular women's magazines that men actually like women with the "B" attitude. This could not be farther from the truth. The reality is that men may want to take this kind of woman to bed, but at the end of the day, a man wants to settle down with the kind of woman that will give him peace of mind and happiness, without the drama that "B's" are known to bring to the table.
If you have been called the "B" word, bear in mind that you can still be respected as a strong woman without being a "B." Stand firm on your opinions, respect the opinions of others, and you will be respected. It is all about respect. If you respect others, if you are not insulting, if you don't speak to others in a condescending manner, you are well on your way to losing the "B" title, and you will the be the better for it.
For men, sleazes are just good for sex. When men want serious relationships with women, they definitely make sure they avoid the sleazy ones. What makes a woman sleazy? Simple. When you are over the edge with your desire to express your sexiness through your appearance and behavior. If you dress in ways that are too revealing, you could come across as sleazy. If you go around being overly flirtatious, you risk being called a sleaze. If you constantly desire sexual gratification from strangers, you are definitely a sleaze.
If you think you may be a sleaze, based on the brief description given above, you can make some changes and gain the respect you deserve. Start by wearing clothes that are not too revealing. You can still be sexy without letting your chest or underwear hang out. If you have an urge to get between the sheets with strangers, you must realize that you are taking enormous risks and could expose yourself to HIV. Get help from a therapist, if you cannot tame this drive inside you.
Is it your way or the highway? Well, if you come across as a lady who wants to run a man's life, you run the risk of being dumped or completely avoided. No man wants to be in a relationship with any woman who wants to run his life. When you can't accept compromises, you are a dominator. To change this behavior, you must learn to accept compromises. You must learn to accept the points of view expressed by others, especially those you claim to love and cherish. When you get the urge to take control of a particular activity your man is engaged in - don't. Let him take care of his affairs unless he asks for your help.
Nothing turns men off like a woman that cannot keep herself or her environment up. People generally are drawn to people and environments that are clean. Have you gone to a restaurant and wanted to sit down at a dirty table? The answer is an unequivocal NO. If people have called you a slob, you probably are. If you want to make sure that you are not keeping members of the opposite sex away, you can start making changes in this area. Start by making sure you are wearing clean and ironed clothes. Make sure you do your hair and nails, and use some makeup. Then move on to get your home clean and organized. Just make these changes, and see the difference it will make in your life.
When you come out as straight-laced, too proper in both speech and behavior, you come across as one that who lacks a good sense of humor. When you don't have a sense of humor - when you cannot give or take a joke - no man will be thrilled to be in any meaningful relationship with you. If you come across as a prude, the perception is that you would also be unimaginative and a log in bed. If you think this description comes close to your personality, you can make some changes now, before it is too late. Relax a bit in your use of the English language. Use slang from time to time - it is only a colorful way of expressing yourself. Allow yourself room to make mistakes. Find ways to make people laugh, and take a joke when one comes your way.
There’s keeping things casual and then there’s plain rude. No man likes a woman who decides to bail on a date at the last minute or claims to have ‘forgotten’ she’d made plans to see you and has arranged to go sale shopping with her best mate instead. Never have the arrogance to assume his time isn’t as precious as yours. Whether he chalks it up to your bad manners or a general lack of organisational skills, if you haven’t got the good grace to stick to arrangements you’ve already committed to, return his calls or texts or arrive on time for your dates then he’s bound to end up resenting you.
Don’t take this the wrong way, but there is such a thing as being too independent. And the truth is, if you are, you could be an intimidating prospect for a potential suitor. Think about it from his point of view. If you’re so good at fending for yourself what the hell do you need him for? Yes, we know it doesn’t work like that but men are simple creatures with simple needs. They like to feel useful and not just a spare part so stop being so lose the ‘I-can-do-it-myself’ attitude and let him buy you dinner, open doors and charm you with a bit of old fashioned chivalry from time to time. Just because you can do it yourself doesn’t mean you have to right?
Your biological clock
Sorry ladies, but men can sense the desperation of a woman who has the urge to breed a mile off. And guess what? It’s not a turn on. Yes, it’s important to know a man’s views on having children. No, you’re not getting any younger and yes, your supply of juicy fertile eggs diminishes month by month, but asking him to father your children on the first date is bound to send him running. As is bugging him about where the relationship is going and dropping massive hints about wanting to get married. Try not to frighten him off with all these concerns before getting to know him properly eh?
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Things Men Hate About Women
One: Men hate the way women jump to conclusions and asumptions with out knowing all the facts surrouding the situation. Women see a situation and immediatly jump to the most logical explanation with out asking any questions. Then when men try to explain the womans mind is already made up with their own dillusion and they think they are right. Heres an example…
What happened my sandwich you ate it on me…. Eh no I didn’t the dog must have taken it… Eh no he didn’t you ate it…. Look the dog is eating it in the corner there look… Well you gave it to him then, there is no way the dog could have taken it off the plate… Yeah sure hunny what ever..
Two: Women love to make plans without consulting us first, just as we think that we are going to have a handy weekend and just relax ourselves. Who should walk into crush our spirt, only herself, with great news on how she is got other plans in mind. And when we make plan to do something we get… Eh no your not your doing this instead… Famous words, I told you during the week.. If you told us during the week we wouldn’t have made our plans to relax for the weekend, would we..
Three: We don’t want to know your every step of the day. Women have a habit of saying, guess what happenend to me today… What happend honey ? thinking you would just tell us the actual event of what happend. But no you tell us everything from the minute you left the house all the way up to what happend and everything in between… And you then wonder why we dont listen to you… Just give us the facts we dont want to know what kind of trouble you had finding a parking spot, or how much of a bitch your boss is or if a work college wore the same clothes as you… we just dont want to know.
Four: We hate your total disregard in our input in dicisions. Women ask our advice and then dont take it.. For example… There is somebody talking about me in work and she is a total bitch what should I do… Confront her and tell her how much of a bitch she is if front of everybody and be little her just like she is behind your back.. Yeah I will thanks I’ll do it first thing tomorrow… After work that day… So did you do it ? Eh no I never got a chance.. how could you not get the chance she works beside you… Men confront men and let them know what they think of each other all the time. Thats how its done, usually when we have our differances a side we know where we stand and just get on afterwards.
Five: We hate the way you question everything we do, we can not leave the house without telling you where we are going… Why do women do this and then acuse us of being controling… We dont ask women where they are going or what they are doing usually because it sparks an argument.. Its just not worth the hassel to ask.
Six: Dont ask us what clothes go with what because we can’t tell you, we dont know what you mean. All we can tell you is trousers go on your legs and a jumper or a blouse will cover your boobs and you might want to put some shoes on. One of our shirts will do for saturday or sunday mornings because this is all you will need. It is up to you dress yourself up we wouldn’t have a clue… Sure whatever we say you just go with something else.
Seven: Men hate shopping, especially clothes shopping. Again we dont know what colours go with what or what handbag goes with what shoes. The truth be known we actually dont care, the only thing on our minds is when is this going to stop, so I can get home and relax. When men shop we know exactly what we want and just go for those items, women on the other hand might have an idea of what they want but could spend the whole day arsing around different shops.
Eight: Stating the obvious is another great trait of the female of our kind. Women always seem to say the most obvious thing in any event, such as something falling, something breaking down or making a loud noise or almost everything. Heres a few examples… I couldn’t stop it from falling… Its a bit obvious you couldnt stop it if its broken on the ground… We’ll have to clean that up… Well we are hardly going to leave it there are we… That wont fit in there… Right again honey it wont sure look at the size of it… I have come to the conclusion that they only state the obvious to buy them time to see our reaction.. Yes honey I will fix it, I will clean it up, you broke it but sure just because you stated the obvious and I love you, I will get it..
Nine: We hate interuptions if we are doing something, women will call men from the other room and expect us to go to them if they want to talk to us.. Beckond to attention like a dog would be.. Come here I want to talk to you, no fear of her getting up and coming to talk to you, oh no, we have to go to you. If men try and pull the same trick we get answered by…. Well you know where I am, you come here im busy… We are treated like dogs men and they see us as them too… After a while it becomes a habit and when we want to talk to them or they us, we just get up and go without thinking about it.
Ten: Women give out about the toilet seat being up constantly. Would’nt it be the same job for us to put it down than it would for you to put up. We dont ask you to put the seat up when you are finished so what gives..
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