How to romance a man, and set his affection with you on fire, requires a little bit of seduction and some physical contact to set in the mood.
Most males are usually all stiff and proper in the outside world; but in truth, they are kids at heart. You need to bring out the affectionate child within them to bring out their romantic nature.
Here are some surefire tips on how to romance a man and bring him to your way of thinking.
Let's Get Physical
Boys will always be boys, and men will always be men. But there's only one thing both have in common – and that is their fierce desire for physical affection. You need to do away with conservatism and bring out your wild side to get started.
Touching is the very first step on how to romance a man. Yes, you read it right! Touching, or physical contact, is one way to turn your man on for a romantic evening.
Men are primal in nature; they react to direct stimuli from their surrounding and nothing else. Caress their arms, their neck, or their ears. It’s a guarantee that you will send shivers into them every time you do it. Imagine what would happen if you do it frequently.
Another way to romance a man is to be direct in your approach. Give them a loving kiss from time to time, or even a simple seduction to bring them to your way of thinking.
If you really want to go to extremes in romancing your man, then you need to fill their vision of you in a sexy outfit that will literally bring flames into their eyes and a fierce hunger in the pit of their stomach – and I don’t mean food.
A Little Seduction To Bring Their Body To A Boil
How to romance a man through planned seduction works wonders in this scenario. You don’t have to tell him on the onset about what you have planned for the evening; but instead, give him a few hints of what "might" possibly happen when he arrives home from work. This will really set his brains on fire and a guarantee that he will be thinking about it the whole day.
Take note, another great way to romance a man is to guide his thoughts to what you want him to think. This will give you full control over the scene and influence him to your way of thinking.
While he's away from home, prepare a romantic dinner that will really set the mood right. When he arrives home from work, give him a serious kiss, guide him directly to the dining area, and tell him to wait.
Put on your sexy dress, with some scents to add to the touch. His eyes will bulge when you come into the dining room all dressed and ready for action.
Set the mood right with some wine to help both of you relax. Avoid serious conversation, but focus more on romantic and affectionate ones that will help bring out the proper mood. Whatever happens afterwards will depend on how you seduce your partner, and how creative you can be, to satisfy his wild inner child.
These simple tips on how to romance a man may take some effort on your end, and a little planning here and there, for it to be successful. But with a little patience, you can give your man a romantic evening that will surely bring out the best in your relationship.
What Women Need to Know
Do men have the same thoughts on what is romantic as women do?
Absolutely not! Most men like to be in charge. All of them like to know women are interested, but then they want to set the pace of the relationship.
Can all men be romanced the same way?
All men are different. You have to figure out what gets his attention, and what turns him on. There are certain cues that let him know you are interested and will get his attention:
Looking into his eyes
Finding little ways to touch him "accidentally"
Being very interested in whatever he's doing or saying
Why is it important to romance a man?
The importance of romancing a man depends on who he is to you.
If he's your husband, it's very important to romance him from time to time, to keep passion alive in a long-term relationship.
If he's some guy at the office, that you have your eye on, you need a way to let him know that you want more than a business relationship.
If he's a long-time friend, or ex of your friend, romancing him will let him know you're not just a pal.
What if the man's romance interests don't appeal to the woman?
That's often the case. You have to find a common ground that works with each other. Being invited to a chick flick, or going shopping for clothes probably won't romance him. Those are things he'll be willing to do with you after he is committed, because he loves you. If you want to get him interested, you need to figure out where you two can agree on liking something. If you do something with him that you absolutely hate, you won't be any fun, and you'll turn him off. If you invite him to something he hates, he may not go in the first place, and if he does, and is bored, that's a turnoff. If there's no common ground, there is probably no real relationship possibility.
Tips on How to Romance a Man
What are some ways a woman can romance a man?
Make him feel good when he's around you.
Be fun to be with and tease him a little. However, don't hang all over him, don't act like an overeager puppy. He wants to know he won't be rejected, but he also wants to work a bit to achieve his goal.
Show interest and then step back.
If you really want to have a relationship with this man, show interest, then hold back a little. He's easier to catch if he's not wary of you. You can invite him to do something - men like to be useful, so it's good to ask him to help you solve a computer problem, advise you on investments (you don't have to take the advice) or help you pick out a new tech gadget. If he does help, you can offer to take him to lunch or cook him dinner (if you cook) to thank him. However, it's important to know that once you've made that connection, you have to back off. He needs to make the next move. Backing off and playing the waiting game is the hardest part, but if you don't do it, he won't know he wants to be with you.
Show him you can have a good time.
Invite him over to watch sports, election returns, a movie, or a space launch on your flat screen TV, with some other friends. His guard will be down, and seeing you having a good time with your friends will be very attractive.
Ask him to help you with something.
Invite him to test drive your new car, or help you download tunes on your Ipod. Gadgets fascinate most men, and it's a good opportunity to get to know each other. If he likes guns, ask him to teach you to shoot, or do target practice.
Ask for lessons on something he enjoys.
Ask him to teach you chess or an online video game.
Learn and indulge in his interests.
If you see him reading a book, magazine, online news source or newspaper, read it yourself, and then discuss it with him. If he's political, get informed about whatever interests him.
Ask him to show you around someplace he enjoys.
Find a venue where he's comfortable and happy, and ask him to show you something about that pursuit.
Keep conversation light.
While you're together, keep the conversation light, find out as much as you can about what he likes without interrogating him. If he mentions doing something or going somewhere interesting, say "Oh, I've always wanted to do that." Which is non-committal, doesn't beg for an invite, but plants the idea in his mind that it might be fun to go with you.
Touch him if you get a chance. For example, if you ask him to teach you golf or tennis, ask him to show you how to hold the club or the racket, and linger in the touching position. Smell good, but don't overdo the perfume. Your clean body scent will turn him on, if he gets close enough to smell it. Listen carefully to what he says, and feed it back to him "OK, you said hold it like this, and follow through on the swing. Like this?" Ask interested questions "What will happen if I do it this way?" "Can I use it like this?"
Don't be a drag!
If you go camping, climbing, fishing, hunting etc. with your guy, don't be too timid about it. If you're a drag that's all he'll remember. Don't put yourself in danger, ask for his help, but don't whine.
Couples should work or learn something together.
If you're in a relationship, but want to turn up the heat a little, try learning something together. Working together compatibly to accomplish something is very endearing.
Dance around him.
If you've made him dinner, or after the game on TV is over and your friends have gone home; ask him to help clean up and put on some slow dance music while you're doing it. Dance around him a bit while you're walking back and forth tidying up. Most men will respond, and if you wind up slow dancing in the kitchen, that's very sexy and romantic for him, too. If you can then say "good night" without having sex, he'll be really intrigued, and looking for a way to come over again.
Flirting is the art of letting him know you're interested in him in subtle ways, but not being too obvious.
How does a woman know the man enjoys what she has done to romance him?
If he likes it, he'll be back for more. If you have tempted him and teased him a little, and he resonates to your energy and presence, he'll be all over it. He'll be offering to help you with other things, go on another outing, get together again. Just keep the tease going, hold back a little, because if you become too easy to be around, you'll lose value in his eyes. In 21 years of a great marriage, I've found it's very helpful to be just a little hard to get from time to time. It keeps the relationship exciting and fun.
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