When it comes to lovemaking locations, let's face it, most couples confine themselves within the four walls of their bedrooms. Is it any wonder then that lovemaking becomes a bit of a routine later on? So to free your sexual spirits and be in touch again with those early, giddy days of your relationship, you should explore making love in OTHER locations of your home.
To start off this lovemaking location series, let's focus on that other `hot' place in your home - the kitchen. After you're through reading this article, I guarantee that you're not going to look at your kitchen the same way again.
How to Transform Your Kitchen to a Really `Hot Playground'
You may not think of your own kitchen as a sexual playground but that will change soon enough. All you need is a little imagination and some easy-to-do tips to transform your kitchen from cooking area to hot, lustful area.
A Little Kitchen Makeover...
First of all, take a quick look around your kitchen, is it chaotic? As you know, the brain is your biggest sex organ and one of the easiest and fastest ways to stimulate it is by visual means. Simply put, if your kitchen is disorganized, then no thoughts of sexual pleasure will ever likely cross your mind when you venture into that room.
So, first of all, tidy up the kitchen! Store things in boxes, re-arrange the cupboards and throw anything and everything you haven't used in the past 2 to 3 years! If budget is not a concern, then consider re-painting your kitchen or adding a very dark color somewhere. (I had a client who once changed his entire kitchen counter to dark red granite with broken glass beads in them that gleamed especially at night. After making that change, he claims that seeing that hot, sexy counter made him want to put his lover on top of it every time!)
If you can't spare much for this makeover, don't worry; there's plenty other you can do without spending much. For instance, change kitchen lights to ones that can be dimmed to allow for a romantic setting. Put red candles at certain areas in the kitchen too. You an even put a small red carpet with a hot and sexy design on the floor! Whatever you think will improve the romance factor in the kitchen... just do it.
A Night of Really Noisy Pots and Pans
Now that you've sexed up your kitchen, now what? Well, it's time to prepare for a romantic night of course!
Plan a romantic meal with your lover. Can't cook? Order in! A client of mine once just had pizza delivered but the table setting and romantic lights and music more than made up for his lack of cooking skills. If you CAN cook, all the better. In fact, an entree of aphrodisiacs or having an aphrodisiac-inspired menu is a great thing to carry out too.
Now dress up a bit for the occasion. We're not talking about donning on a suit here. Just make sure you're showered and smelling good. Don a shirt that's open to reveal your chest and you're good to go! (And make sure your kitchen counters are cleared of anything on top of them (more on this later...)
Now, while having your meal together, be sure to really bond with your lover. No TV, no blaring music, (no kids...), and others. Tonight, just make it all about you and her.
While having your meal, start to be naughty! Play footsie under the table. Sit beside her and run your hand up and down her thighs while you eat. In short, start building up the sexual tension!
For dessert, have something decadent like chocolate cake or ice cream with hot sauce. Share it with your lover, feeding her from your own spoon. (Be sure to dim the lights by this time! And that space on the kitchen table has been cleared...)
As you engage in more foreplay, do NOT make a move towards your bedroom. Instead, lead her on top of the kitchen table or on the kitchen counter top and make love there! Keep in mind that the height of the kitchen table and kitchen counters can help you with your lovemaking. For example, your lover on the table, you on a chair facing her, makes for excellent oral play!
Now that you know how truly hot the kitchen can be for your relationship, don't just make this a one-time thing... but don't keep a schedule either! Here's a tip: make sure to flirt with each other in the kitchen as much as possible. For instance, while she's busy peeling potatoes, make your hands busy as well by groping her a bit anywhere you want!
Kitchen Quickie Tip:
It's not always possible to plan out a full meal for some hot kitchen interlude. When feeling a bit naughty but don't have the time, simply walk into the kitchen after a shower... naked and `aroused' or have certain parts of you covered in whipped cream. (Of course, make sure no visitors are currently having tea with your partner!) The sight of you instantly tells your partner what exactly you have in mind and she'll hopefully feel the same way right away too!
Kitchen Lovemaking Tips
It you’re interested in having some hot and steamy sex, head to where it gets really hot and steamy – the kitchen.
The possibilities for sex in the kitchen are endless. There are warm, cold, hard and soft surfaces. There are positions that are ripe for oral lovemaking, and those perfect for intercourse. It’s a virtual buffer of options.
Ways to Make Love in the Kitchen
By the stove.
Make sure the stove is turned off, of course, and not warm at all. But here, you can have your lady bend over, and hold onto the sides of the stove, while you make love to her from behind. Make sure you don’t ignore other parts too; curve one arm around the front and fondle her that way. If you’re very tall, you can have her sit on the stove and you can make love facing each other. However, for most men, coming in from the backside works best.
By the sink.
Washing dishes has never been this fun. Sometime when your woman is doing dishes, slide up behind her and start kissing her neck. If she seems receptive, fondle her breasts and then move down to caress her thighs and the area between them. If she’s still receptive, bend her over and take her from behind. You can also choose to turn her around first so she’s facing you. She can brace herself with her hands behind her on the sink as you make love to her.
On the table.
Oh, the stories that abound from making love on the table! You can have oral sex, missionary-style intercourse, doggy-style intercourse, sex while on a chair, sex without a chair. It’s probably the best surface in the kitchen for lovemaking too! It’s flat, it’s clean and it’s versatile (as we just outlined).
Just make sure the table can handle both your weights. If your table is a pedestal style, it will be less sturdy than a table with legs. The last thing you want is the table breaking right under you guys. It will be hard to explain that one at breakfast the next morning!
One of the best table positions is with your woman sitting on the edge of the table, using her hands behind her to hold herself up. Have her bend her knees up toward her chest and you hold onto her knees and use them as leverage to push yourself in and pull yourself out of her. This is a position that will bring both of you great pleasure!
By the freezer.
Is your freezer a top mount? That is, does it sit above the fridge? If so, open it up and have your lady use the bottom shelf to hold onto while you enter her from behind. The freezing cold air will harden and tighten her nipples, which will be exciting for both of you. The cold air in general can be an exciting turn-on. This is perfect for a summer sex in the kitchen session.
On the counter or kitchen island.
This one is for you. While she pleases you orally, you can lean back and enjoy the view, or simply the sensations. Sitting on the counter gives her the best view and position to perform on you, and you the best view of her doing that. We know you’re visual, guys, so this one is for you.
On the kitchen floor.
I saved the obvious for last. The floor of the kitchen makes an obvious and easy background for lovemaking, but it can be uncomfortable. If you plan to do it on the floor, be sure to place something down first (a towel, a blanket, a rug) as it can be hard and cold without some cushioning. Doing it on the floor allows you to be a little more creative with lovemaking so do give this a try.
Also, while on the floor, consider adding some fun elements to your sex play. You can feed each other (simply reach over and open the fridge where you might have strawberries, watermelon and cherries waiting), or play around with kitchen tools. Some might end up being great sex toys.
We’re always being told to get creative in the kitchen. And making love there is about as creative as it gets as there’s no end to the possibilities. So go ahead and create a new recipe for your sex life!
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